You hear a lot about “lifestyle change” today. In fact, most diets call themselves a “lifestyle change”, even Weight Watchers.
I guess it makes customers THINK they’re doing the big job, not the little (short-term) one.
My favorite “lifestyle change” quote was a friend on Phen-Fen who had lost a lot of weight. As she ordered lasagna and whipped four packets of sugar into her tea, she proclaimed “It’s not a diet! It’s a lifestyle change! I feel so different!”
Well, with real change you don’t “feel different”, you ARE different.
Don’t be fooled. My friend’s sad truth is that she was losing weight on the scale but not burning fat. She was, however, burning valuable other elements of her precious body and wound up with heart valve degeneration and heart disease. She regained the weight and became diabetic. Today, she is very ill.
The experience of watching this sad progression spurred me on. My own sister (who was the only thin person in our family but maintained her weight by smoking and drinking diet coke all day) died at the age of 37 and she spurred me on too.
It’s really not about the weight, it’s about taking charge of our lives. Making powerful decisions. Not letting anyone get in the way.
I can’t say this loud enough.
IT’S ABOUT TAKING CHARGE!
No one will do this job for us. In fact, even if they wanted to, they can’t!
Eventually we all have to say “NO” to the diet industry that wants us fat so we can continue to be “good customers.”
You’re on a diet if: you are losing weight quickly
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you are losing weight slowly
You’re on a diet if: you are focused on food change
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you are focused on behavior change
You’re on a diet if: you eat according to someone else’s plan
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you eat according to your body’s needs, discerned and decided by you alone
You’re on a diet if: you need high level, excessive exercise that constantly has to be increased in intensity, duration or exertion
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you vary exercise based on your body’s needs
You’re on a diet if: you’re focused on willpower and mental effort
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you’re focused on your body’s cues and needs
You’re on a diet if: food = trouble or food = enemy
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: food = energy
You’re on a diet if: your focus is to look a certain way or weigh a certain amount
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: your focus is energy, vitality and health
You’re on a diet if: you think positive change is about manipulating the body
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you think positive change is about internal change and finding peace in your life
You’re on a diet if: you’re focused on now
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you’re focused on the big picture of your life
Long-term sustainable change is actually easier than fighting the body and living in food struggle. But don’t tell the diet industry that little secret!
I think I am on a lifestyle change! Hmm I am really happy about that!!!
Wa-hoo – so glad to hear it!
The differences between lifestyle changeand dieting are powerful. It givesme a lot to think about, especially this one: You’re on a diet if: you’re focused on willpower and mental effort
You’re pursuing lifestyle change if: you’re focused on your body’s cues and needs
Thank you.
Cheri:
So true! How often do we think we can be successful if we simply have more willpower? Are stronger mentally? Not true!! The body’s needs are much stronger than our willpower and will overrun it every single time. Thanks for commenting!